Best Time of Year to Elope
If you’re planning a wedding or elopement—whether it’s a Vancouver elopement, a dreamy destination elopement in Tofino, or something more local on Vancouver Island—you’re probably wondering when the best time of year to elope is. Your elopement date will shape so many aspects of your day: the weather, your location options, what you wear, and what kind of experience you’ll have overall.
The good news? There’s no wrong answer. Each season brings something special—and with a bit of flexibility and the right plan, your day can be incredible no matter when you elope.
Spring
If you’re drawn to moody, romantic vibes, spring might be your season. Especially in the Pacific Northwest, spring brings rain, fog, and that dreamy soft light that looks incredible in candid photography and documentary-style photography. A Tofino elopement in the spring can feel straight out of a movie—think mist rolling over the ocean, dramatic skies, and lush greenery.
Spring is also the season of cherry blossoms and new blooms, which make beautiful backdrops—especially if you’re planning a Victoria elopement where the city comes alive with flowers. The only downside? Rain. But if you’re working with a photographer like me (who’s ready with a backup plan B or C), the rain won’t stop us—it’ll just add to the story.
Pro tip: Spring weekdays are often quiet, so you’ll likely have more privacy at popular elopement spots.
Summer
If you want sunshine, adventure, and golden hour magic, summer is hands-down the most popular season for a Vancouver Island elopement. Longer days mean more flexibility for exploring, whether you’re hiking, paddleboarding, or running barefoot along the beach at sunset.
Summer is ideal for couples who want those glowing, sun-drenched photos and lots of time outdoors. Plus, you’re less likely to get rained out (although we’re always ready for surprises in the PNW!).
The trade-off? Crowds. Summer is peak season, especially in spots like Tofino and Victoria. But don’t worry—if you’re open to a weekday or an early morning ceremony, we can still find those quiet, intimate moments.
Another heads-up: It can get hot, especially inland. So if you’re not a fan of the heat, think about a breezy coastal location or sunrise ceremony for a cooler experience.
Winter
Snow-covered trees. Cozy fires. Hot drinks and warm layers. If that sounds like your kind of vibe, then a winter Vancouver elopement or destination elopement on the island could be the dream.
Winter elopements are all about intimacy and quiet beauty. Imagine saying your vows surrounded by snowflakes or snuggled up in a cabin on Vancouver Island. And if you’re lucky, you might even get that magical fresh snowfall for your photos.
The challenges? It will be cold, and some locations might be harder to access (think closed roads or needing a 4×4 vehicle). But for the right couple, the peace, stillness, and snowy romance are 100% worth it.
Bonus: You’ll likely have even the most popular spots entirely to yourselves.
Fall
Fall elopements in Vancouver and on the island are something truly magical. The forests turn golden, the air feels crisp, and everything is wrapped in warm, cozy tones that look incredible in authentic photography. This is a perfect season if you’re looking for a balance of nice weather and fewer crowds (especially on weekdays).
A Victoria wedding photographer might suggest fall for the colours alone—but it’s also a great time for couples who want to go hiking, soak in the cool air, and still catch some golden light before the days get too short.
The biggest downside? Fall is becoming more popular, especially in national parks or iconic spots. But again, planning for a weekday or a lesser-known location solves most of that.
No matter when you choose to elope—spring showers, summer sunshine, fall foliage, or winter wonderland—your elopement will be uniquely you. Whether you’re dreaming of a Vancouver Island elopement, a quiet moment in Tofino, or an urban ceremony in Victoria, the most important thing is that your day reflects your love and your vision.
As a Vancouver wedding photographer and Victoria wedding photographer who specializes in candid, documentary-style photography, I’m here to help make your dream elopement feel effortless, intimate, and full of joy. Let’s make magic together—rain or shine.
Elopement Planning Resources
Feeling overwhelmed planning your elopement? My blog about the 5 stages of elopement planning will help break down the whole process into easily digestible bits.
Not sure how to make your elopement feel unique and fun? Check out my blog filled with elopement activity inspiration and examples.
Want to elope with mountain views? Here are two of my favourite places to shoot at (with an ultimate guide to planning your elopement at each one). Check out Washington’s Mount Rainier Elopement guide, or Squamish’s Sea to Sky Gondola.
Still have questions about the best time of year to elope?
What is the cheapest time of year to get married?
The cheapest time of year to get married is typically during the off-season, which falls between late fall and early spring (November through March, depending on the location). Winter months are less in-demand, so venues and vendors often offer discounted rates. Weekdays and non-holiday dates are also more affordable.
What are the disadvantages of eloping?
While eloping offers intimacy and flexibility, it’s not for everyone. Some common disadvantages include:
- Missing loved ones who would’ve liked to witness the moment
- Family disappointment or tension around not being invited
- Less traditional celebration (if you want a big party vibe)
- Logistics of planning in a remote location without a planner
However, many couples overcome this with post-elopement receptions or live-streaming their ceremony.
How far in advance should you book an elopement?
You should book your elopement at least 3–6 months in advance. This gives time to secure your ideal location, vendors (like your Vancouver wedding photographer!), permits, travel, and accommodations. However, if you’re flexible and working with an experienced elopement photographer, it’s possible to plan a beautiful elopement in just a few weeks.
What month is the best time to get married?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but September and October are extremely popular for their mild weather and fall colors. June and July are also classic choices with long, sunny days. For a Tofino elopement or Vancouver Island elopement, late spring through early fall tends to offer the best weather and accessibility.
Do you propose before eloping
Most couples do have a proposal before their elopement, even if it’s a private or low-key one. It helps mark the transition from dating to engagement and gives a chance to celebrate before the planning begins. But it’s your story—some couples decide together to elope and skip a formal proposal entirely!
What is the best day to elope?
Weekdays (especially Tuesday through Thursday) are the best days to elope. Popular locations are far less crowded, vendors have more availability, and you’ll have more privacy and flexibility. Avoid holidays and weekends unless you’re okay with sharing your spot with tourists or hikers.
How long does the average elopement take?
The average elopement lasts 4–8 hours, depending on the activities and coverage you want. It can include getting ready, a first look, ceremony, adventure session, and a celebration (like a picnic, champagne pop, or cozy dinner). Some couples even turn their elopement into a full-day experience or multi-day destination elopement!
Is eloping better than a wedding?
Eloping can absolutely be better—if it fits your personalities and priorities. Elopements offer:
- More intimacy and connection
- Less stress and pressure
- Freedom to design a day that feels authentic
- Potentially lower costs
That said, if you’ve always dreamed of a big celebration with everyone you love, a traditional wedding might be the better choice. It’s all about what feels right for you.
What is eloping autism?
“Eloping” in the autism community refers to wandering or running away from a safe environment, often without awareness of danger. It’s unrelated to wedding elopements, but it’s important to distinguish the two. In the wedding world, eloping means choosing a private, intentional marriage ceremony—often just the couple and a photographer or officiant.
Is getting eloped a real marriage?
Yes! Eloping is a real, legal marriage—as long as you follow your local laws. That usually includes getting a valid marriage license and having an officiant and witness (some places even allow self-solemnization). Once the paperwork is filed, your marriage is just as official as any large wedding.
How many people should be invited to an elopement?
Most elopements include 0–10 guests. The idea is to keep it intimate and intentional. Some couples elope with just their photographer and officiant, while others invite a few close family or friends. If you’re inviting more than ~20 people, you’re likely planning a micro-wedding rather than a true elopement.
